Last few days, my friend told me that her classmate who always try to chat with every girls in her class, including she. Every girl is very annoy about his behavior and trying to have a distance from him. The words of the guy used when trying to chat with girls are OVER, such as, darling, sweet heart, etc. Nobody can forgive his behavior in this harmonic social. After using my suggestion to get rid of this guy, my friend has successfully let the guy leave she spontaneously. Indeed, the way my friend used to get rid of the guy is using the concept of power of silence.
First of all, could you imaging that the world top spy chat with a stone. Yes, he is trying to talk with a rock. Is it possible? Of course, it is not possible. So, my suggestion is trying to be a stone when you are facing someone you dislike to talk with. No matter how the person is trying to talk with you, said you are fat recently, for example, what you need to response is just be a "rock".
It is very suspicious for me about the guy he seems have some "training". This is because he always trying to use some "key words" to let girls have a "chance" to chat with he. "You seems fat recently" when he meet someone who is absolutely slim. How you will react when a stranger tell you that you seems fat recently? Try to defend yourself by saying "is it?", "are you sure?", "stupid, get rid of me" etc. If you have some reaction on it, you are giving chance for he to have more conversation with you. And then, YOU ARE IN THE TRAP!!!!
What my suggestion is to be a rock. The procedure are stated below:
1. Looking the guy 3 seconds with a numb face expression and without a smile.
2. Move your focus on other things such as chat with other friends, look at a book, or just look a tree.
3. Continuous the step 2 until the guy go away.
To recap, nobody can cheat a stone to move from one place to another place. By using the power of silence when you have no idea about the circumstance will be a good idea to save yourself.
Good luck and have a nice day^^
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