Mastering one own life by oneself will always be possible if and only if you believe it. According to top motivator guru, Anthony Robbins, that are four keys points to master our life:
1. Raise your standard
2. Change your limiting Belief
3. Model the strategies that work
4. Increase your emotional intensity to train and build up your emotional muscles.
I believe so much on them which not only give me a continuous momentum to push myself from one level to another level, but also grow my quality of life gradually.
Sometime we do know what we should do today. For instance, we know that we should study because the exam is coming soon, the result of the exam is important, education can change our life and so on. But the reality is a lot of people fail in their exam and finally give up and start suffer from their regret throughout their life... Therefore I hope this article can inspire you to change your life.
Raise your standard. What happen to our life if we change the "should" to the "must" from previous example? Are there more people pass their exam and further their study? Sometime people fear responsibility, commitment, and promise. A man who fear to said "I love you" to his love one, for example, will cause his love one lose secure and finally divorce become their "solution". If you love your lover, you must tell he or she how much you love he or she instead of thinking that he or she should know it in last few years. Therefore, try to change "should" to "must" now in your life.
Change your limiting beliefs. The beliefs are so powerful and have power to control your life. Let's imagine you believe study is very important to your life. You will, of course, focus on study because you believe it is very important. Next, you also believe constant study is a proved way to achieve good result, you will have a habit to study everyday instead of last minute study. As a result, you result will improved and this improvement will directly or indirectly increase your belief upon it. The stronger your belief, the more effort you will put in to your study. Guess what, you because a top student just change your belief.
Model the strategies that work. Success leaves clues! Try to adopt the habits of successful people such as hardworking, patience, keep doing, willing to help and so on.
Increase your emotional intensity to train and build up your emotional muscles. I believe so much everything in our life can be trained just like muscles. The only difference is the period or time it needed. You may take up to 2 years to train your body muscles, so how about your brain muscles? Have you ever train it before?